She’s darling, by the way! And strong! Good for her! And good for you, Mom! You’re showing her how to stand up for herself and what’s right. Clearly, it’s the teacher that is being disruptive to the educational process because she is too worried about a five-year-old shoulder. She is the one sexualizing the Teacher End Year shirt situation. So disappointing. I was a teacher (at home with my babies now) I can definitely say it’s not acceptable for adults to make it a big deal like that. From a teacher perspective. It’s gross. Disturbing. Who is disruptive to? Kids don’t care because they don’t even understand the concept of sexuality – only teens/adults do. Makes the teachers come into question more than anything.